Saturday, December 1, 2007

Merci

Today is the first of December and Christmas time is coming up....
So well is it not a good time to start with a very very simple exercise to feel good and let other people feel better?
That what you have to do is very simple, just say "Thanks", "Dankeschön", "Merci" or "¡ gracias!" to somebody who did something for you.
But take care, don't just say it! The situation should be real and you have really believe on that what you say. Otherwise I think it is wrong and usually other people will notice that you don't say the truth (especially woman *smile*).

You may think what a effort, just so say ALWAYS thanks for stuff.
Well, do you remember when you got your last honest thanks?
Do you remember how you felt at this moment?
Did you l like it?
Isn't is nice if you know, just a small word can change feelings.
What do you think, how people see other people who say honestly thanks?
Just few questions to think about...
I would say give it a try and see how people react, in some cases it is really great!
And I personally think it is worth do it ... you will get it back several times!!

PS: similar applies on "I am sorry" ... but more on this ... later on .. we learn step-by-step :)

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